Compare Real Lady bodies, heads, softness options, motion functions, and IronAI before you place an order.
How to choose a Real Lady doll
A Real Lady configuration starts with the body and face, then gets personal: how she looks in your room, how manageable the weight feels, how soft you want the body, and whether interactive features are worth the extra setup.
Use this guide to compare Real Lady body sizes, head types, appearance choices, softness upgrades, skeleton features, vagina options, robotic functions, and IronAI voice box upgrades.
A simple Real Lady choice map
- Choose the body size and weight you can enjoy long term.
- Choose the head type and function you need.
- Choose her head appearance, including skin tone, eyes, hair, and makeup.
- Review body detail options such as body painting, nails, freckles, tan lines, and pubic hair.
- Decide how much softness and touch realism matter to you.
- Decide whether pose upgrades matter for display, photos, or daily handling.
- Add interactive functions only if you truly want them.
- Check what is included by default before paying for extra options.
Real Lady body sizes explained
Each body feels different in a room and in your hands. Smaller bodies are usually easier to move, dress, clean, and store. Taller or fuller bodies can look more lifelike in person, but they also ask more from you during daily handling.
| Body | Height | Bust | Waist | Hip | Net weight |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| RL150 | 150cm / 59in | 75cm / 29.5in | 48.3cm / 19in | 92cm / 36.2in | 26kg / 57.3lb |
| RL159 | 159cm / 62.6in | 85.5cm / 33.7in | 52.7cm / 20.7in | 97cm / 38.2in | 31kg / 68.3lb |
| RL168 | 168cm / 66.1in | 95.5cm / 37.6in | 61.5cm / 24.2in | 103.2cm / 40.6in | 41kg / 90.3lb |
| RL170 | 170cm / 66.9in | 91cm / 35.8in | 67.3cm / 26.5in | 107cm / 42.1in | 44kg / 97lb |
Why weight matters
Weight affects moving, dressing, cleaning, posing, photos, and storage. Choose the body you are drawn to, but be honest about what you can handle comfortably.
How to choose a Real Lady head
The body sets the scale. The head usually decides who she feels like. Face shape, eyes, lips, expression, makeup, and hair can change the whole character of the doll.
Real Lady head selection has two steps. First choose the head type: hard head, soft head, or ROS / ROS Max. Then choose the sculpt and makeup style that feel right to you.
Hard silicone head vs soft silicone head
Compare the structure, softness, and handling differences before choosing a head type.
ROS vs ROS Max
See how the two oral cavity options differ before deciding whether this upgrade matters to you.
Head type selection
Start with structure and function: hard head for stability, soft head for a softer touch, or ROS / ROS Max for an oral cavity structure.
Head sculpt and makeup selection
After the head type is clear, choose the face: sculpt, expression, lips, eyes, makeup, and overall character. For many buyers, this step matters as much as size and weight. For additional real-world reference across several brands, browse our multi-brand factory photo gallery.
ROS and ROS Max are two different oral cavity options. Watch the comparison video before ordering, especially if mouth structure is one of your priorities.
Head appearance: sculpt, makeup, eyes, skin tone, and hair
The same Real Lady head can change a lot with different makeup, eye color, eyebrow style, eyelashes, skin tone, and hair.
You can choose a head sculpt and makeup look from Real Lady's official photo sets. Treat those photos as makeup references: keep the original look, ask for small changes, or send a reference photo for custom makeup.
Skin tone
Skin tone affects the head and body match, how makeup reads, how the doll photographs, and the mood of the finished build.
SS+ makeup
SS+ makeup is the default Real Lady makeup finish. It adds face color, expression detail, and more depth around the features.
Eyes
Eye color changes her gaze and can make the same head feel warmer, cooler, softer, or sharper.
Eyebrows & eyelashes
Eyebrows and eyelashes shape the expression around the eyes. For hard heads, ROS heads, and ROS Max heads, you can choose implanted eyebrows for a more natural look. Soft heads are available with painted eyebrows only.
Wig options
Wigs are easy to change and give you the most flexibility if you want to adjust her character style without committing to one fixed look.
Implanted hair colors
Implanted hair comes with several color choices. A professional hairstylist can usually style it close to the official photo set, but confirm the final hairstyle with customer service before ordering.
Body detail options
Body details are separate from head appearance. They affect how finished and personal the body looks in person and in close-up photos.
SS+ body painting
Included by default. Body painting adds skin tone variation, shadow, blush, and body detail so the body does not look flat up close or in photos.
Skin texture
Included by default. Skin texture adds pores and surface detail for closer viewing.
Areola color & size
Areola color can be customized, and the diameter can be made from 3-5 cm / 1.2-2.0 in. Choose the color and size that best match the body style you want.
Labia color
Labia color can be customized to better match the body style, skin tone, and level of visual detail you prefer.
Vagina texture
Internal vagina texture is a personal preference. The default option is B3.
Fingernails and toenails
Nail color and style affect hand and foot presentation, especially for close-up photos, display, or a more complete character look.
Freckles & moles
Freckles and moles can make the doll feel more specific and less generic. They are visual character details, not required realism upgrades.
Tan lines
Tan lines add a stronger body story and beach or summer mood. Skip them if you prefer a clean, even skin look.
Pubic hair styles
Implanted pubic hair is an optional styling choice. Choose a style that matches the body aesthetic you want, or skip it if you prefer a clean look.
Body softness options
Real Lady softness is easiest to compare in two steps: choose the body material first, then add extra softness only to the areas where you want it.
Step 1: choose the body material
The body material sets the overall feel of the doll. Standard silicone feels firmer and more supportive. Ultra Soft Silicone makes the whole body feel softer from the start.
Step 2: add local softness
Local softness options only affect the area you choose, such as the breasts, butt, belly, thighs, or vagina area. You do not need to add every option.
Choose the overall body feel
Standard silicone vs Ultra Soft Silicone Body
Use this comparison to see how the body material changes the base softness before any local softness options are added.
Add softness only where you want it
After choosing the body material, you can add local softness to specific areas. If you skip a local option, that area keeps the standard feel for the body material you selected.
Breast softness comparison
Compare Gel Breasts with the softer result created when gel breasts are paired with an Ultra Soft Silicone Body.
Butt softness comparison
Compare the standard butt feel, Gel Butt, and the softer gel-butt result created by combining gel filling with an Ultra Soft Silicone Body.
Quick softness guide
| Softness level | Configuration |
|---|---|
| Level 1 | Standard Silicone Body with no extra soft option. |
| Level 2 | Standard Silicone Body with local soft option, or Ultra Soft Silicone Body by itself. |
| Level 3 | Ultra Soft Silicone Body combined with a local soft option. |
Vagina options
Real Lady offers two main vagina structures: removable vagina / sleeve or fixed vagina. The better choice depends on cleaning, replacement, resale flexibility, and whether you prefer a built-in structure.
Removable vagina / sleeve
A removable vagina is a separate sleeve that comes out for cleaning. It is easier to wash because you do not need to move the whole doll to the bathroom. If the sleeve wears out over time, you can replace it. This structure may also help the doll hold more resale value.
Fixed vagina
A fixed vagina is built into the body. If you want to add an auto suck vagina function, the doll must use a fixed vagina. For robot and interactive functions, read the section below before choosing.
For regular body and cavity care, follow our step-by-step sex doll cleaning guide.
Hands, feet, and structure matter
A doll can look great in one photo and still feel awkward to pose. Hands, feet, posture, head angle, and body balance all affect photos, display, and daily handling.
Internal structure
Internal structure options are hidden inside the doll. You usually do not see these parts directly, but they affect movement, support, and how well the doll holds poses.
External structure
External structure options affect parts you can touch, see, or use directly. They matter for hand feel, foot appearance, standing ability, and display.
Hard feet transition update
Hard hands transition update
Wrist transition close-up
Optimized transition detail
Interactive functions: what they add
Interactive features can make a Real Lady doll feel more responsive, but they are not required for every buyer. They add cost, setup, power needs, cleaning steps, and possible maintenance.
Function demo videos
The videos are grouped by function, so you can see what each upgrade does before adding electronics or moving parts.
Intelligent moaning demo
Shows the sound response feature in use.
Auto Blowjob + hip and waist movement
Shows the neck-driven head movement working together with electric hip and waist motion.
Auto Suck Mouth demo
Shows the mouth suction function available for ROS / ROS Max heads.
Internal clamp & suck
Shows the built-in vagina clamp-and-suck function.
External clamp & suck device
Shows the external device version of the clamp-and-suck function.
IronAI / Dollia
IronAI is an AI voice companion upgrade that you can add after choosing the head type.
Real Lady currently supports 9 AI character roles. Each device is built around one character, so the voice, personality, and memory stay tied to the role you choose. For a closer look at voice, personality, memory, and day-to-day response, watch our hands-on IronAI video review.
If the head does not use implanted hair, Real Lady can create a recessed mounting space and install the voice box inside the head. If you choose implanted hair, treat the voice box as an external unit.
Choose IronAI if
You want voice conversation, memory, and a character that can respond to you over time.
Skip IronAI if
You prefer her to stay quiet, feel uneasy about AI features, or simply like a cleaner, simpler setup with fewer electronics.
What IronAI adds
AI system and updates
IronAI uses Real Lady's self-developed AI system with ongoing updates and free OTA software upgrades.
Voice and language
It supports 7 languages, real-time voice interaction, and voice output trained with real voice actor material.
Memory and personality
Depending on the plan, IronAI can use short-term and long-term memory, so conversations can feel more familiar over time.
Companion feel
IronAI is for buyers who want the doll's voice and character to matter as part of the ownership experience.
IronAI subscription plans
| Tier | Voice / chat allowance | Monthly price | Core benefits | Best for |
|---|---|---|---|---|
|
Free Try the voice feature. |
One-time 15-minute voice trial 50 daily text messages |
$0 | Basic voice use, 3 message memory slots, and current-session memory only. | Light companionship and first-time testing. |
|
Pro For regular chats. |
300 voice minutes / month Unlimited daily text chat |
$13.99 / month | Long-term memory, 10 message memory slots, and resettable memory. | Users who want her to remember them. |
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Ultra For heavier voice use. |
600 voice minutes / month Unlimited daily text chat |
$22.99 / month | Deeper long-term memory, 20 message memory slots, resettable memory, and priority response. | Frequent voice users who want stronger memory support. |
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Platinum For the most frequent users. |
1,000 voice minutes / month Fair use |
$35.99 / month | Voice immersion mode, deep long-term memory, unlimited memory slots, resettable memory, and 24/7 priority support channel with best-effort fast response. | High-frequency users who want the largest voice and memory package. |
Quarterly and yearly discounts
| Tier | Monthly | Quarterly | Yearly |
|---|---|---|---|
| Pro | $13.99 | Save 19%$33.99 | Save 35%$109.99 |
| Ultra | $22.99 | Save 20%$54.99 | Save 35%$179.99 |
| Platinum | $35.99 | Save 20%$85.99 | Save 35%$279.99 |
What is included with a Real Lady doll?
Real Lady's standard package includes the doll's core configuration, several premium body features, and the basic accessories needed for setup and care.
Default doll configuration
SS+ makeup silicone head, Real Lady body with EVO Max skeleton and SS+ Body Painting, wig, gel breasts, Grace Joint fingers, hard hands, boltless standing feet, articulated toes, and sway-pivot adaptor.
Included box contents
1 head, 1 body, 1 pair of eyes, 1 wig, 1 comb, 1 cleansing pump, 1 drying stick, 1 sleeping bag or blanket, 1 heating rod, 1 love doll manual, and 1 set of sexy lingerie.
Before ordering, review shipping times and discreet delivery options.
Recommended Real Lady builds
These four routes start from the standard Real Lady package, then add the paid upgrades and free selectable options that fit different ownership goals.
Balanced first Real Lady
Recommended setup: Standard Silicone Body, Soft Head or ROS / ROS Max head, wig, fixed vagina, boltless standing feet / hard feet, hard hands, Gel Breasts, and Gel Butt.
Photo and display focus
Recommended setup: Standard Silicone Body, Hard Head, implanted eyebrows, implanted hair, fixed vagina, boltless standing feet / hard feet, hard hands, and Gel Breasts.
Soft touch focus
Recommended setup: Ultra Soft Silicone Body with Soft Head or ROS / ROS Max head, plus Gel Breasts, Gel Butt, Softer Thigh, Softer Belly, and Softer Vagina.
Interactive companion
Recommended setup: Standard Silicone Body with ROS / ROS Max head, wig, IronAI, Auto Suck Mouth, Oral Heating, Auto Blowjob / Oral Sex Movement, and Electric Hip and Waist.
Accessories and smaller add-ons
These Real Lady accessories help with styling, storage, cleaning, repair, and long-term care.
Extra eyes
Extra mechanical or hemisphere eyes can change the expression of the same head.
Extra wig
Extra wigs are useful if you want to change her character style without changing the head.
Realistic bust stand
A realistic bust stand gives an extra head a display base with shoulders and chest detail.
Care and repair items
The repair kit includes repair glue, nail repair glue, stain remover, and silicone test pieces for practical long-term care.
Real Lady doll FAQ
What is the relationship between Real Lady and Irontech?
Real Lady is Irontech's high-end sub-brand. Some option names and design details may feel familiar if you already know Irontech, but Real Lady uses a higher finish standard with more detailed finishing work.
Is a heavier body always more realistic?
No. A heavier body can feel more substantial, but realism also comes from face detail, skin tone, makeup, body painting, hands, feet, pose, and styling.
What is the difference between hard head and soft head?
A hard head usually gives the most refined makeup and the most stable face structure. Real Lady promotional photos are usually shot with hard heads, so this is the closest match if you care most about display and photo accuracy. A hard head does not include oral function. If oral interaction matters to you, choose a soft-head configuration such as Soft Head or ROS / ROS Max instead.
Is IronAI the same as moaning?
No. Intelligent moaning is a triggered sound feature. When certain sensitive areas are touched, it plays moaning responses, so the result is more mechanical. IronAI is different. It is an AI language model voice companion designed for conversation, memory, and more personal interaction.
How much weight do the robot functions add?
The added weight depends on the function package: Auto Blowjob with Electric Hip and Waist adds about 3.5 kg / 7.7 lbs; Auto Blowjob alone adds about 2 kg / 4.4 lbs; Electric Hip and Waist alone adds about 1.5 kg / 3.3 lbs.
